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<\/p>\nI never imagined that understanding her world a little better would lead me to overhear something that made me question her marriage, my son-in-law\u2019s intentions, and eventually even my own behavior.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou know why you married her.\u201d<\/p>\n
The knife stopped halfway through the cucumber.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
I stood motionless in my daughter Emily\u2019s kitchen in South Korea while her husband, Joon, argued with his father in the next room.<\/p>\n
They were speaking Korean.<\/p>\n
Neither of them knew I understood.<\/p>\n
Joon answered first.<\/p>\n
\u201cI love Emily.\u201d<\/p>\n
His father, Young-ho, responded sharply.<\/p>\n
\u201cI never said you didn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n
My stomach tightened.<\/p>\n
For nine months, I had secretly been teaching myself Korean using an app on my phone.<\/p>\n
I was sixty years old, stubborn enough to maintain a daily lesson streak, and tired of smiling politely whenever conversations happened around me that I couldn\u2019t follow.<\/p>\n
Emily had built an entire life in Korea.<\/p>\n
If I wanted to understand that life, I thought I should at least understand some of the language.<\/p>\n
I simply hadn\u2019t expected to hear something I wished I could unhear.<\/p>\n
Young-ho lowered his voice.<\/p>\n
\u201cHow long are you planning to keep this from Emily?\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon sounded irritated.<\/p>\n
\u201cI haven\u2019t decided anything.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re interviewing for jobs in America.\u201d<\/p>\n
My fingers tightened around the kitchen counter.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m leaving,\u201d Joon replied.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou said something similar when you married her.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDad, don\u2019t start.\u201d<\/p>\n
Young-ho\u2019s voice rose.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou knew exactly what Emily represented when you met her.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI said I love my wife.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd that isn\u2019t the issue. She moved her entire life here for you, and now you\u2019re making plans that could move hers again without even telling her.\u201d<\/p>\n
A chair scraped against the floor.<\/p>\n
Then Young-ho said something that made me set the knife down.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou wanted a way out of the future I planned for you. Emily showed you one.\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon answered coldly.<\/p>\n
\u201cI wanted my own life.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd now you\u2019re doing to her exactly what you accused me of doing to you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cStay out of my marriage.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThen stop deciding your wife\u2019s future without asking her.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stepped away from the counter.<\/p>\n
Twenty-four hours earlier, I had thought the biggest problem with my visit was that I had packed far too much pancake mix.<\/p>\n
Emily had met me after my flight and immediately stared at my three suitcases.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom, are you visiting me or moving in?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI packed responsibly.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou packed like supermarkets don\u2019t exist in Korea.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she hugged me so tightly I nearly forgot how much the distance between us had bothered me.<\/p>\n
Back at her apartment, she pulled crackers, pancake mix, candy, and several other American foods from my luggage.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom, we have food here.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNot the food you like.\u201d<\/p>\n
She laughed.<\/p>\n
But I knew the truth.<\/p>\n
Half the things in those suitcases were items she had never requested.<\/p>\n
I called them gifts.<\/p>\n
Really, I was transporting pieces of home across the Pacific because some part of me still hoped Emily needed them.<\/p>\n
She had moved to Korea for work years earlier.<\/p>\n
Then she met Joon.<\/p>\n
At first, I worried.<\/p>\n
Not because there was anything wrong with him, but because he belonged to a world I didn\u2019t understand.<\/p>\n
Different language.<\/p>\n
Different family expectations.<\/p>\n
Different traditions.<\/p>\n
Then I met him.<\/p>\n
Joon was patient, thoughtful, and clearly devoted to my daughter.<\/p>\n
Eventually, I stopped worrying about him.
\nWhat I never quite accepted was that Emily stayed.<\/p>\n
While unpacking, I casually mentioned the bakery near my house.<\/p>\n
\u201cThey renovated the whole place. You\u2019d love it now.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m sure I would.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she folded a towel.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe\u2019re actually thinking about renewing this apartment for a longer lease.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked up immediately.<\/p>\n
\u201cHow much longer?\u201d<\/p>\n
She glanced at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cA while.\u201d<\/p>\n
I straightened several boxes that were already perfectly straight.<\/p>\n
\u201cWell. Good for you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily narrowed her eyes.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou did the voice.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t have a voice.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYes, you do. The one where \u2018good for you\u2019 actually means, \u2018How dare this information personally attack me?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
I sighed.<\/p>\n
\u201cI just miss you. I\u2019m proud of everything you\u2019ve built here. But sometimes I\u2019m allowed to be sad for myself too.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her expression softened.<\/p>\n
\u201cI miss you too, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
That should have been enough.<\/p>\n
Somehow, for years, I had taken those three words and turned them into an imaginary plane ticket home.<\/p>\n
The following evening, Emily was delayed at work.<\/p>\n
Joon\u2019s mother wasn\u2019t feeling well, so only Joon and Young-ho came over for dinner.<\/p>\n
I had met Young-ho at the wedding and once afterward.<\/p>\n
He was reserved, formal, but always polite with me.<\/p>\n
I went into the kitchen to prepare appetizers while he and Joon talked at the dining table.<\/p>\n
At first, I ignored them.<\/p>\n
Then they switched to Korean.<\/p>\n
Then I heard Emily\u2019s name.<\/p>\n
Young-ho said, \u201cIf Emily or Stella ever finds out how much fear influenced the beginning of this marriage, those job interviews will be the smallest thing you\u2019ll have to explain.\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon hissed, \u201cThey aren\u2019t going to hear anything from you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou can\u2019t hide relocation plans forever.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ll tell Emily if something real happens.\u201d<\/p>\n
My heart began pounding.<\/p>\n
I backed away from the kitchen.<\/p>\n
Then I slipped outside wearing house slippers and called Emily.<\/p>\n
No answer.<\/p>\n
So I sent one message.<\/p>\n
**Call me when you\u2019re alone. Please.**<\/p>\n
I stood outside in the cold wondering whether telling her what I had heard would protect my daughter or simply explode a marriage I didn\u2019t fully understand.<\/p>\n
Less than an hour later, the front door flew open.<\/p>\n
\u201cI got it!\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily rushed inside glowing with excitement.<\/p>\n
Joon and I had been clearing the table.<\/p>\n
Young-ho had gone out to buy a dessert Emily loved.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe promotion,\u201d she said. \u201cI got it!\u201d<\/p>\n
I hugged her.<\/p>\n
\u201cI knew you would.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThey want me leading the regional team.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s wonderful.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she added,<\/p>\n
\u201cFour years.\u201d<\/p>\n
Over her shoulder, I saw Joon\u2019s expression change.<\/p>\n
Emily pulled back.<\/p>\n
\u201cFour years, maybe longer.\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon smiled.<\/p>\n
But half a second too late.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s incredible.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at him.<\/p>\n
He knew exactly what four more years in Korea meant for the plans he had been making.<\/p>\n
Later, while Emily was showering, I found Joon alone in the kitchen.<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes she know?\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked up.<\/p>\n
\u201cKnow what?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThe interviews.\u201d<\/p>\n
His face changed.<\/p>\n
Then he asked quietly,<\/p>\n
\u201cHow much Korean do you understand?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEnough to know you\u2019re making plans involving my daughter without telling her.\u201d<\/p>\n
He glanced toward the hallway.<\/p>\n
\u201cKeep your voice down, Stella.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI will when you answer me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stepped closer.<\/p>\n
\u201cDid you marry Emily because she was American?\u201d<\/p>\n
His head snapped toward me.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo. Absolutely not.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThen explain what your father meant.\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon dragged a hand across his face.<\/p>\n
\u201cBefore Emily, my father had my entire future mapped out. I was supposed to work in the family company, stay near my parents, and eventually run the business.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd Emily changed that?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe lived like choices belonged to her.\u201d<\/p>\n
I frowned.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat does that mean?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe made decisions for herself. Career. Country. Travel. Everything. I had never really thought that way.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSo she looked like an escape.\u201d<\/p>\n
He hesitated.<\/p>\n
\u201cAt first? A little.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDid she know?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd you married her anyway?\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon flinched.<\/p>\n
\u201cBy then, it wasn\u2019t about escaping. I loved her. I still love her. That\u2019s what makes admitting the beginning uncomfortable.\u201d
\n\u201cThen why hide these interviews?\u201d<\/p>\n
His jaw tightened.<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause part of me still wants out.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOut of Korea?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOut of the future my father still expects me to accept.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stared at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd you\u2019ve already decided Emily will come with you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI thought I\u2019d talk to her if there was an actual offer.\u201d<\/p>\n
The bathroom door opened.<\/p>\n
Emily walked in drying her hair.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat exactly am I supposed to understand?\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon immediately looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cStella and I were just talking.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAbout what?\u201d<\/p>\n
I folded my arms.<\/p>\n
\u201cHis job interviews.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily lowered the towel.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat interviews?\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon exhaled.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve spoken with three companies in the United States.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThree?\u201d<\/p>\n
She stared at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cDid you tell them you were willing to relocate?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI said relocation was possible.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cFor you?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cFor us.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily\u2019s expression hardened.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou told complete strangers I might move countries before you even asked me?\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cHow did you know?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI overheard Joon and Young-ho speaking Korean.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her eyes widened.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou understand Korean?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEnough.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSince when?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve been learning.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause I wanted to understand more of your life.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her gaze moved between the two of us.<\/p>\n
\u201cApparently everyone understands my life except me, because everyone seems to be discussing where I should live.\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon stepped toward her.<\/p>\n
\u201cEmily, this isn\u2019t about using you.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cThen tell her what you told me.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily frowned.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat did he tell you?\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t soften it.<\/p>\n
\u201cI asked whether being American was part of why he was drawn to you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily went completely still.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI had to ask after what I overheard.\u201d<\/p>\n
She turned toward Joon.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy would your father say I was your way out?\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon\u2019s shoulders dropped.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen I met you, Dad had already decided everything for me. Joining the family company. Staying here. Eventually taking over.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd I changed that?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou showed me another life was possible.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her voice became quiet.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo I was convenient.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAt the beginning?\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon hesitated.<\/p>\n
\u201cAt the beginning, what your life represented was part of what attracted me. You made me realize I could choose something different.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd then?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThen I fell in love with you. I never married you because you were American. But being with you made leaving the life my father designed seem possible.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily stared at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd now you\u2019re doing exactly the same thing to me.\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon said nothing.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re planning the escape first and assuming I\u2019ll come afterward.\u201d<\/p>\n
Still nothing.<\/p>\n
That should have been the moment I kept quiet.<\/p>\n
Instead, I made my own mistake.<\/p>\n
\u201cWell, moving back to America wouldn\u2019t exactly be terrible.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily turned toward me.<\/p>\n
\u201cBack?\u201d<\/p>\n
I immediately knew I had said the wrong thing.<\/p>\n
\u201cI meant you would have opportunities there too.\u201d<\/p>\n
She shook her head.<\/p>\n
\u201cBoth of you are doing the same thing.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou keep turning my life into somewhere you want me to go.\u201d<\/p>\n
She put on her shoes and grabbed her coat.<\/p>\n
\u201cI need a few hours where nobody is planning my future for me.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she left.<\/p>\n
Young-ho returned shortly afterward carrying a bakery box.<\/p>\n
\u201cEmily likes this one.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked around.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhere is she?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOut.\u201d<\/p>\n
He found me straightening napkins that didn\u2019t need straightening.<\/p>\n
I stopped.<\/p>\n
\u201cDid you really plan Joon\u2019s entire life?\u201d<\/p>\n
Young-ho sat across from me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI thought I was giving my son security.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe calls it control.\u201d<\/p>\n
Young-ho nodded slowly.<\/p>\n
\u201cSometimes those two things look very similar.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then he asked me something I wasn\u2019t prepared for.<\/p>\n
\u201cDid Emily ever promise you she would move back to America?\u201d<\/p>\n
I couldn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n
Because the truth was no.<\/p>\n
She never had.<\/p>\n
She had said she missed me.<\/p>\n
She had occasionally said \u201cmaybe someday.\u201d<\/p>\n
She complained about missing certain foods.<\/p>\n
She said she wished flights were shorter.<\/p>\n
And I had quietly collected those sentences and turned them into a promise she had never made.<\/p>\n
Joon had once looked at Emily and seen the possibility of a different future.<\/p>\n
I had looked at her and assumed that someday she would choose mine.<\/p>\n
Our reasons were different.<\/p>\n
But Emily was still the person standing in the middle while everyone else pulled.<\/p>\n
The following night, I joined Emily and several coworkers who were celebrating her promotion.<\/p>\n
I watched her laugh with people whose names and histories I barely knew.<\/p>\n
One woman told me,<\/p>\n
\u201cWe honestly would\u2019ve fallen apart without Emily last year.\u201d<\/p>\n
Someone asked whether I was proud.<\/p>\n
\u201cVery.\u201d<\/p>\n
And this time I meant it without qualification.<\/p>\n
Another coworker asked how long I was visiting.<\/p>\n
\u201cNot long enough.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily glanced toward me.<\/p>\n
Usually, I would have followed that with a joke about kidnapping her and bringing her home.<\/p>\n
This time, I didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
The next morning, Joon waited for me in the kitchen.<\/p>\n
\u201cI received an offer.\u201d<\/p>\n
I put down my coffee.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s good. Does Emily know?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNot yet.\u201d<\/p>\n
I raised an eyebrow.<\/p>\n
\u201cI know,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019m telling her today.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cGood.\u201d<\/p>\n
He sat down.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf she accepts her promotion, we\u2019re staying here at least another four years. Maybe longer.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t know whether I can do that.\u201d<\/p>\n
For once, he wasn\u2019t pretending.<\/p>\n
He was simply saying what he wanted.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t want to run my father\u2019s company,\u201d he continued. \u201cI don\u2019t want the life he chose. I want to build something myself.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThen tell your wife exactly that.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI will.\u201d<\/p>\n
He hesitated.<\/p>\n
Then said,<\/p>\n
\u201cShe listens to you.\u201d<\/p>\n
I knew immediately where he was going.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou want her closer too, Stella. We\u2019d be living on the same continent. You\u2019d see her more.\u201d<\/p>\n
The image came instantly.<\/p>\n
Emily drinking coffee at my kitchen table.<\/p>\n
Birthdays without airports.<\/p>\n
Christmas without video calls.<\/p>\n
Joon saw the temptation on my face.<\/p>\n
\u201cJust help her understand the advantages.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked directly at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re asking because you know I\u2019m biased.\u201d<\/p>\n
He said nothing.<\/p>\n
\u201cI want my daughter home more than you understand. But if she ever comes back, it needs to be because she chooses it.\u201d
\n\u201cThat isn\u2019t fair.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo,\u201d I said. \u201cIt isn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n
I started toward the hallway.<\/p>\n
Then stopped.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd don\u2019t use my loneliness to justify what you did.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily was sitting on the edge of her bed when I found her.<\/p>\n
\u201cI owe you an apology.\u201d<\/p>\n
She sighed.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo excuses. No \u2018but.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
That made her look at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve spent years telling you I only wanted you to be happy. But too often what I really meant was that I wanted you happy somewhere I could easily reach you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her eyes filled.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou never promised you were coming home. I turned hope into expectation.\u201d<\/p>\n
I sat beside her.<\/p>\n
\u201cMissing you is my responsibility. Your life belongs to you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily leaned against me.<\/p>\n
I held her.<\/p>\n
Then she whispered,<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if I accept the promotion and stay here another four years?\u201d<\/p>\n
There it was.<\/p>\n
The question I had quietly feared for years.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ll hate missing birthdays.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ll hate needing a twelve-hour flight just to drink coffee with my daughter.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMom\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cBut that is mine to carry.\u201d<\/p>\n
She stared at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf Korea is where your life is, I\u2019m going to stop talking about America as though your real home is sitting there waiting for you to return.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily covered her mouth.<\/p>\n
I squeezed her hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cChoose your own life, sweetheart.\u201d<\/p>\n
Later that day, Joon finally told her about the job offer.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t stay for their conversation.<\/p>\n
I went for a walk.<\/p>\n
Because I was beginning to understand that loving someone did not automatically give me permission to stand inside every decision they made.<\/p>\n
When I returned, Joon and Emily were sitting at opposite ends of the couch.<\/p>\n
Joon looked exhausted.<\/p>\n
\u201cI asked the company for two more days to decide.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily watched him.<\/p>\n
\u201cThey wouldn\u2019t give me the time, so I turned the offer down.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her eyebrows rose.<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t ask you to do that.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
He leaned forward.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut I wasn\u2019t going to force you into a deadline you never agreed to. And I still need to be honest\u2014I don\u2019t know whether I can spend the rest of my life here.\u201d<\/p>\n
Emily nodded slowly.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t want to leave yet. My career is finally becoming what I worked for. I need to see where this goes.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI understand.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd wanting something different isn\u2019t the betrayal, Joon.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked at her.<\/p>\n
\u201cMaking decisions about my life before telling me was.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
She took a breath.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut we can talk about everything. If we stay here, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to work for your father. You can leave the family business. We can decide what comes next together.\u201d<\/p>\n
Joon nodded.<\/p>\n
The morning I flew home, Emily helped me close my suitcase.<\/p>\n
It was noticeably lighter.<\/p>\n
She held up a box of crackers.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re taking these back.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAbsolutely not.\u201d<\/p>\n
She laughed.<\/p>\n
Then she picked up my phone.<\/p>\n
\u201cI fixed the settings on your Korean app.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou went through my phone?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou handed it to me.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cFine. What else did you discover?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThat your pronunciation is terrible.\u201d<\/p>\n
I laughed.<\/p>\n
At the airport, Emily hugged me longer than usual.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYeah?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know you weren\u2019t intentionally trying to pull me away from my life.\u201d<\/p>\n
My throat tightened.<\/p>\n
\u201cI was trying to pull you closer to mine. I didn\u2019t realize how controlling that could become.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m learning the difference.\u201d<\/p>\n
She squeezed my hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd I\u2019m learning that missing you doesn\u2019t mean I made the wrong choice.\u201d<\/p>\n
That one hurt.<\/p>\n
But in a good way.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t need you to move back to prove that you love me, Em.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her eyes filled.<\/p>\n
\u201cGood.\u201d<\/p>\n
She smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause I love you from here.\u201d<\/p>\n
When my boarding group was called, I picked up my bag.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ll call when I land.\u201d<\/p>\n
For years, I had interpreted distance as rejection.<\/p>\n
Now I finally understood something different.<\/p>\n
My daughter had never abandoned me.<\/p>\n
She had simply built a life large enough to become completely her own.<\/p>\n
And loving her meant allowing that life to belong to her.<\/p>\n
Not to Joon.<\/p>\n
Not to Young-ho.<\/p>\n
And not to me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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